Castle Personal Training is a Corstorphine, Edinburgh based company who specialise in weightloss/toning and Pre and Post Natal exercise.
I seem to be getting more and more emails from concerned mums who gave birth a while ago and find that their separation is not healing by itsself.
This is where I get a little bit exasparated with the crappy NHS advice, other shitty services are available, which states “The separation between your stomach muscles will usually go back to normal by the time your baby is eight weeks old”. Although technically this might be correct it really is hokum for most women and completely fails to address a real problem.
For all you ladies who are still struggling with separation years after giving birth, it really isn’t unusual and can be fixed.
The NHS advice is well intentioned as a way to reassure mums-to-be and new mums but I can’t help but feel that it’s just part of the terrible physical postnatal care mums get in the UK (And judging by the amount of emails I get from the US and Canada, it’s pretty bad everywhere).
I have written about this before but am more than happy to do so again; Your muscles need strengthening up after pregnancy to go back into place properly and to eliminate any future problems. Your body does not bounce back! And it drives me nuts that the NHS tells you it does because it makes many women feel like there is something wrong with them when they still have issues years later.
For your body to heal properly you need to do 2 things; nurture it with food and exercise and give it rest when required. This is a completely normal and natural thing to do but we seem to have moved away from it, especially post-natal, and I can already hear loads of mums shouting at the screen that they “haven’t had any rest in ages” and “what do you know, you stupid man!”
As one of my clients said; “Angelina can piss right off, I haven’t slept for 3 days”
So if we just expect it to bounce back we’re already saying that the exercise part doesn’t matter. And when you remove the exercise bit then some ladies, mainly younger women who have just given birth to their first child, might find their tummy goes back to looking like it used to but most ladies end up having problems. And we all know that looks can be deceiving; just because the tummy looks similar to how it used to, that doesn’t mean it is.
I’m not saying you should exercise for an hour a day 4-5 times per week, a quick 7 minute routine 3-4 times per week is more than enough after about week 5-6. And that 7 minute home routine can actually be quite relaxing as well, so this can give you the chance to clear your mind and slow right down for a while. All my post natal clients do a home routine and almost all of them love it because they treat it as their time.
So in short; yes your Diastasis will heal naturally, it just won’t really heal all by itself and you need to help it along a little bit.